❙❚ dear sentimental, if only I were given a chance...❦: 那一天

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

那一天

记得那一天　上帝安排我们见了面　我知道我已经看到了春天
记得那一天　带著想你的日夜期盼　迫切地不知道何时再相见

记得那一天　等待在心中点起火焰　我彷佛看到了命运的终站
记得那一天　你像是丢不掉的烟　弥漫著我再也驱赶不散

那一天　那一天　我丢掉了你　像个孩子失去了心爱的玩具
那一天　那一天　留在我心里　已烙上了印　永远无法抹去

生命在故意和我周旋　给你一个难忘的瞬间
却不能让她继续永远　那天你走出我的视线　再也没有出现

6 comments:

Anonymous said...: 愛她，就應樂於見她活得快樂、開心。凡她認為最能令她幸福快樂的，就讓她去做吧！

愛她，就該由她自選本身的快活路。即使認為你不適合她，而去另覓愛侶，你也該本著愛她之心而成全她，為她祝福，不可心存不悅。

讓你喜歡的人愉悅，即表達了你對她的愛，你能否佔有她，並不重要，倘若她找到更合適的終身寄託者，你應為她高興。

當然，最期望的是，你所愛的人也認定你是她的最佳選擇，而願與你共結連理，白頭偕老。不過，一切順其自然，不可勉強。

愛，不是佔有

Hopefully, you understand it.

Cheers
Boon; 18 December 2008 at 03:10
nicholas said...: 为何为一个不爱自己，不喜欢自己的人痛苦呢？你痛苦，那她呢？还不是继续她的快乐生活？
男人不应该为一个不爱自己的女人而烦恼，总觉得这是最不值的...; 18 December 2008 at 08:54
william said...: 当知道本来可以开开心心，甜甜蜜蜜的生活，而因为在感情上没经验，伤害了对方呢？其实，我当然希望她平平安安，但如果自己知道她是不适合我，老早就开心分手了，而不是事到如今的双方痛苦，又痛恨。因为大家都见不到对方，少了真正的沟通与关怀，感情才会出现破裂。她其实很适合我，只是自己在外国太久了，见面更是不用说，才会无思乱想，而导致乱发脾气。所以呢，不是我不明白，我现在很清楚知道自己错在哪，所以才会这样辛苦，因为知道只要肯给机会，事情可保证不会再发生。Boon, 如果你是陪伴着我们的旁观者，你就会觉得可惜，可惜为何没经验，为何要想太多。。。相信我吧，你所说的例子，不在于我们的感情上。。。; 18 December 2008 at 10:29
Anonymous said...: Dear Yan Hong

There are not only me to feel upset with this relationship, but all multimedia classmates as well. We tried to help, but what to do? End up, it is about both of you.

I wrote this phrase to you is not meaning your relationship is like this. I think you misunderstand my intention.

I have written this phrase to you is because I hope you can understand and try to think like that. I hope you feel better, I hope you be optimistic, I hope you get out from this dilemma, I hope you understand it already 不可勉強。I hope you let go yourself.

Be frank, she already let go herself from this relationship. You are only one who still stuck inside and think for nothing...

Hopefully, you are not too long for that, If not, nobody will help you.

分手已是不爭的事實，憎恨,抱怨,自怜自哀只徒添更多無奈。

Boon; 18 December 2008 at 22:42
william said...: I know Boon, and I am not 憎恨, 抱怨 or 自怜自哀. But you need to understand, when your heart still love someone, u wont get rid of it. You have in love, means u have. Sweet memories still there. Even-though, she have let go, but it's hard for me. I didn't even 勉強, did I? I didn't force her... I am sad because of my emotion, and I do still care of her. These are all about me recently. I didn't even call or sms her. So, I am not 勉強 her to be with me again, but I hope! Is hard to think the other way, as it didnt even happen to be like in the other way. Maybe say it this way, u will be more understand. My heart is still on her site, and it will be impossible for me to get into relationship anymore in even near future, maybe few more years, who knows... but I would say if she still will give me chance after a year or two, I will be more than very happy to comfort her again, and won't hurt her anymore, as this is already an expensive teach for me but if she got another one, I will feel sad, and wish her good luck. This is what I want to say.; 19 December 2008 at 02:49
nicholas said...: 我只能说你是对感情很脆弱的男人...
要记得，结束是新的开始...
在一段感情结束后，千万不要把自己看得太专一，吃亏的只有自己...; 22 December 2008 at 17:02